Got the rest of my parts today, and it still fought me tooth and nail, but it's done and seems to be working nicely.
Putting the hoses on was a snap. The first problem came when it was time to install the actuator. You have to prime the dampner, but there isn't any kind of instruction on how to do it, so I filled up the resevoir and tried pushing against it on the floor. It didn't move much and the pressure forced some fluid around the plastic plug, making a mess. I tightened the plug and decided to mount it to the trailer tongue and use the truck to do the priming. Made more mess, but that sucker is primed, I promise.

Now I had to mount the bypass solenoid, so off the tongue the actuator came (thank God for pneumatic tools). I don't know where Tie Down got their engineers, but if I see one on the street, I'm gonna pop him one. Why, you ask? The pipe nipple that came on the solenoid is too short to spin it onto the resevoir without hitting the sides of the actuators' case. The picture they have on their website shows it mounted to my same actuator, must have been staged because there is now way on God's green earth that sum biscuit was going on. Off to Lowes to get an inch and a half long nipple (that's funny right there ;D). Got 'er mounted up and time to bleed me some brakes. Easy right? Nope. I had brake fluid all over the dadburned driveway. The line I hooked to the bleed screw kept coming off. There just wasn't enough meat on the screw to hold it and a wrench at the same time. I improvised. My neighbors must think for sure I'm going to hell because by this time I'm cussing a blue streak and throwing things. Anywho, the Admiral was doing the pumping (again, that's funny right there), bless her heart, she just let me go off the deep end. When I recovered we got 'er done, the brakes were bled. Whew, all thats left is to hook up the wiring. I bought a 7 pole RV plug to use being as that's what is on the truck. Well I wired it using the color code on the back of the connector, each slot had a color written next to it. Guess what? It was wrong!

I backed the truck up to the work area and used the diagram that's written on the cover of the jack. Again, if'n I see one of those engineer dudes, POW! Using a flashlight (cuz by now it's friggin dark), I wired it to the trucks' code. It worked like a champ. Hooked her up and pulled her around the block, slamming on the brakes the whole way, I had a good time with that. Everything works and there is no more bump from the trailer when I hit the brakes. Thank God that project is over with.