Long winded as usual.. sorry guys.
Thank you, thank you, thank you.
He was in cardiac rehab doing well post bypass and he got pneumonia, then he stopped urinating and the supplemental potassium built up to dangerous levels. They were marching on with therapy and he just couldn't get his wind. O2 levels won't hold without oxygen. Friday was a bad day as he just couldn't breath with all the fluid in his lungs. Renal failure is mainly due to the lasics I think. HE is retaining water like I never seen, catheter helped a lot as his output rose drastically and he is getting rid of fluids but it isn't a fast process. They rushed him from the rehab facility to the ER Friday morning where they worked on him for 8 hours trying to get him stable. I was concerned he might not make it then, that being the worst day post surgery. His problem from the beginning has been Congestive Heart Failure. He has improved since, but has drawn the line in the sand and refuses to do all they have to offer. Dialysis for one.. He is not convinced he will recover (depressed) and his mind is so sharp, he has a strict DNR in place and wishes upon wishes not to linger about as his mother and father both did. Granny spent 12 years in a nursing home. Roy went to see his mother there nearly every day for 12 years, a real testament to the kind man that he is. He does not want to end up in a nursing home because it would be such an imposition on my mom. As it is I think he is pissed off at all of us for making him take the medicine and have the surgery. He had no choice if he wanted to survive. I think that is the part we don't understand fully. He can't see making it back to do the things he enjoyed the most and isn't pleased and we couldn't see doing without him on any level so in that regard we are selfish. At any rate, a new cardio medicine yesterday seemed to help. Helps with the "squeeze" portion ??? of his heart rhythm which is weak. Supposed to help with everything else also.. It is out of our hands, hope and pray he responds to the treatment. Thanks again, keeping the faith. Vic