you can usually put your ear to the transom while its running and hear the gimbal bearing growl if its bad, turn the drive side to side, the u-joints will make some noise at full turn, thats normal, but if the growling gets worse, you know it the gimbal bearing. Check the gear lube and see if you have any metal in it. Upper gear issues won't cause it to vibrate, it will whine till the gears are gone. If it vibrates in nuetral, its either the engine,coupler, or drive shaft assembly. Pull the drive(put shifter in forward, remove the 6 nuts holding the drive in place, disconect the trim cylinders and it should coem off) and tell us what you find.. Also, look behind the engine at the cou[ler area, see if there is any aluminum dust or small black burnt rubber balls everywhere. BTW, propshaft end play is normal. Check your prop for damage. Check the propshaft by clmaping a coat hanger to the antiventalation plate wioth a pair of vise grips, bend teh end of teh cloaths hanger so its very near the center of the propshaft to use as a reference, spin the prop by hand and see if the center drill on the shaft wobbles. Don't pay attention to the shaft threads or the prop hub, they normally wobble, the only thing thats abo****ly true on teh shaft is the center point